Parenting Your Child Reading
Children are not things to be molded, but are people to be unfolded.
Jess Lair
Defined or Undefined Centers
In our design, we have defined and undefined energy centers. With defined centers, we have access to consistent energy. This means, for example, some people have what we call a strong will and can stay on task easier, while others have inconsistent will power. Whereas in the areas that we have undefined centers, we are open to conditioning, which can lead a person away from their authentic self.
Awareness of these mechanics gives you invaluable understanding of how we influence each other and how we can be more conscious of our words and actions with our children. It also helps us understand where they may not have the energy for certain behaviors.
Authority
Our authority type determines the authentic way to make decisions. Some of us are able to make a decision in the moment, while others may need to ride out their emotional waves or wait out an entire lunar cycle.
● Does your child tell you the only thing they want is to go to the park and then they are grumpy when they finally get to go?
● Does your gut give you an instant answer while your child seems to need time to know how they feel?
● How do you bridge these differences and stay true to Self for both people?
Find out what your and your child's authority type is to understand how each other processes and navigates Life. Deepen your understanding of your child and watch them blossom.